The idea of the Sweet Surrender as a Lifestyle Play Party is to create a fantasy world, usually people only find in books. In this worlds some people own slaves, servants, "O"s, Kajirae and others and it is perfectly normal. That is what many into BDSM find appealing but when it comes to real life play parties, you usually find them going into another direction. It is more a meet and greet, where you hang around with old friends, have a chat, some drinks and then it is of to the playrooms for a while. But this magical world is missing and that is kind of sad. When else, than at such events, would be the time to change into other habits, make it perfectly normal that one is the Master or Mistress while the others are slaves and subs.
Of course this doesn't mean that the submissives are fair game or we want to tell people how they shall live their way of BDSM. The rules we set up are just basic rules that allows everybody to slip into the preferred role for at least that evening. Most are more about courtesy to others than real restrictions and of course the own Top always has the decision and no one will be forced to do anything with others.
Furthermore there will be a TIME OUT ZONE where you can have a chat without sticking to your roles. Consider this to be a safe haven but be assured that the rules don't restrict you that much and you can enjoy all the party without the need to retreat.
We hope that our guests like the idea and we appreciate any thoughts on this subject, as we want to extend this party into a series of events and offer a different kind of play party then the usual ones.
Your Xklusiv Team |